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Hello,My name is
Anaïse Ikama. I am
from Brazzaville, Congo but was born in the northern part of the
Republic of Congo, precisely in a City called Mossaka
October 4 of 1981
must have been an emotional and
exciting day for Job and Christine, my parents, who experienced the joy
and happiness of giving birth to a little girl in Mossaka, a small city
in the northern part of the Republic of Congo
, a country of about 3 million people in Central
Africa.
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In
October of 2001, there was some
light at the end of my tunnel. I finally got a visa to the USA and
arrived in New York City on November 9th. Although I was excited to be
next to my father, his wife Debra (who has been a good mother to me)
and my lovely siblings Stephie and Alex, learning a new language was a
huge challenge I had to overcome. Not to mention that English was not
my favorite language back home. I acknowledged that my success in this
new environment would depend mainly upon my ability to speak and write
in this language fluently.In January of 2002, I enrolled in the English
as a Second Language program at LaGuardia Community College . During my
first two months in the ESL program things were overwhelming. Outside
home, people had a hard time understanding and keeping up with my
French accent, which was really not easy for me to overcome. Starting a
dialogue was difficult for me. To avoid people’s confusion and
frustration, I stayed away from conversation, unless, someone had
questioned me directly.After a while, I persuaded that being shy would
not solve my problem.
I
persisted to work hard on my
pronunciation by listening to tapes and talking more. Approximately six
months later, I started to feel comfortable with the English language;
therefore, in September I joined the Adult Learning Center to prepare
for my GED. I had to study hard and focus on my reading and writing,
which accounted for about 75% of the GED. Writing essays, reading
books, newspapers and even watching television became my daily tasks.
Besides that, there was my first GED professor, Andrea who taught me
better techniques of writing by avoiding word for word translation,
from French to English, rather, using expressions. Then, my second
professor, Caron introduced me to American slang when we studied a book
by August Wilson titled “Fences”. This was very interesting, although,
I struggled to keep up with the story because of what I called “street
dialogue”. Finally, my last GED professor, Charles not only helped me
with my English, but also taught me the American Constitution and so
many more on American history. With tremendous help and attention from
those professors, I successfully passed my GED exam in July 2004. What
a joy! Plus the timing was perfect to start working on my application
as a freshman for the fall of 2004. During the summer, I studied hard
for the ACT test, which I successfully passed as well.
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All in all, living in Astoria with my
new family has taken my pain away and made me forgive those who
mistreated me. I also have a special person (Aymard Oyouba) in my life,
who I hope will be my future husband. Hence, I am very satisfied in my
life and always make sure that I enjoy every second of it. Knowing that
there might be people going through this same situation, I envision
helping, to the best of my abilities, kids who physically and
emotionally suffer in my native Congo.
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